A special summer round for OUT girls WHO DON'T WANT TO STOP!
A 5-week live home reset so you stop fighting with your home and finally become the BOSS of it!
"Twenty minutes later the house was back together. Ellie was right — I've got this."— OUT Girl
A letter to my OUT GirlsCan I tell you something?
I honestly wasn't planning on inviting you to anything after OUT.
I figured we'd have an amazing three days together, we'd celebrate, I'd choose the winners, we'd all get a bunch of stuff OUT, and that would be that.
But then you ladies completely messed up my plans.
Because my inbox started filling up with messages that all sounded basically the same.
And I was like...
Okay.
I hear you.
Three shopping bags are not going to reset years of clutter, and that was never the point of OUT.
The point was simply to let you experience what happens when things actually leave your home.
Not when you move them.
Not when you organize them.
Not when you shove them into a prettier basket.
When they actually leave.
Because once you experience that feeling...
you want more.
So I honestly have no idea how many of you are reading this thinking, "YES. This is exactly what I want."
Maybe it's ten of you.
Maybe it's twenty.
I honestly don't know.
What I do know is that this page isn't for every OUT girl.
Some of you had an amazing time, got rid of a bunch of stuff, built some great momentum, and you're happy continuing on your own.
That is AMAZING.
I am genuinely so proud of you.
But I also know there are some of you who finished this challenge thinking,
"Nope. I'm not done."
"I don't want to spend the next five years decluttering one random drawer every few weeks."
"I want to finally do this properly."
Those are my women.
Those are the women I want to spend the rest of the summer with.
So I decided to do something I honestly haven't done in years.
I'm opening a special Summer Home Reset Camp
just for my OUT girls!
For this round only
Home Reset Bootcamp is still self-paced.
The difference this summer is that you won't be doing it alone.
You'll have our private Summer WhatsApp group, and a live Q&A where we can learn, celebrate, troubleshoot, and cheer each other on as you reset your home.
In your pocket
Private WhatsApp group
OUT-girls-only. Ask, share wins, get answers all summer long.
Face-to-face
Live Q&A with Ellie
Bring your cabinets, your kitchen, your stuck spots. I'll walk you through it.
Vault favorites
Bonus classes
A couple of my most-loved classes, added on top just for this round.
After this summer, I have no idea if and when I'll do it again.
If you're reading this thinking,
"Ellie... This sounds amazing!"
Keep reading.
Because I really think this could be the summer you stop fighting with your house and finally become the boss of it.
Let's pretend it's tomorrow.
It's five o'clock.
One child is crying because she's hungry. Another one suddenly can't find her shoe because apparently shoes grow legs in this house. Someone remembers there's homework that needs to be signed... except nobody can actually find the homework.
Your husband is probably walking through the door any minute.
You forgot to make that really important doctor's appointment.
Supper isn't ready.
You just realized there's no more rice in the pantry.
Tomorrow morning your daughter needs a clean uniform shirt.
Your son needs a white shirt.
You're already juggling ten different things.
Then you look around your kitchen.
The counters are screaming at you to clean them.
The sink is screaming at you to wash it.
The cabinet is so stuffed that you practically need to hold everything in with one hand while you close it with the other.
There are papers.
Toys.
Random piles.
Everything is asking something from you.
And you're standing there thinking,
"I literally cannot do one more thing."
Can I tell you what I think?
I don't think you're overwhelmed because you're bad at managing your home.
I think you're overwhelmed because you're trying to manage way too much.
That is such an important difference.
Because when women feel overwhelmed, almost every single one thinks the exact same thing.
"I just need to get more organized."
Women think they have an organizing problem.
I think they have a clutter problem.
There is simply too much to manage.
We've all bought the bins.
We've all bought the baskets.
We've all reorganized the same cabinet over and over again hoping somehow this time it's finally going to stay that way.
It doesn't.
Not because you're doing anything wrong.
Because there's simply too much.
Every single thing you get rid of is one less thing asking something from you.
That is the secret.
So how are we actually going to do that?
The method
During OUT, I asked you to stand in front of a cabinet or drawer and ask,
"What can I get rid of?"
Inside Home Reset Bootcamp...
We completely flip that around.
I have women empty everything first.
The old question
"How do I fit all of this back?"
The new question
"Do I really want to invite all of this back into my home?"
Because I don't want you standing in front of one packed cabinet trying to decide if you should get rid of one ketchup bottle. That is exhausting.
I want you to see everything.
Because the minute you pull it all out, something really interesting happens.
Almost every woman says the exact same thing.
"How on earth did all of this fit in here?"
And honestly...
that's exactly what I want.
Because for the first time you're looking at the sheer amount of stuff you've been trying to manage.
Then you turn around and see this beautiful empty cabinet.
And your brain immediately changes the question.
You're not thinking,
"How do I fit all of this back?"
You're thinking,
"Do I really want to invite all of this back into my home?"
That one question changes everything.
We're not trying to find better places for everything you own.
We're deciding whether everything you own deserves a place in your home in the first place.
Once you've significantly decluttered, organizing becomes the easy part.
Not one where you have to turn it sideways, balance it on top of three other things, shove it in with your knee and hope the drawer closes.
A real home.
The kind of home where a three-year-old can put something away just as easily as she took it out.
That's one of my rules.
If it's harder to put something away than it is to dump down... your system is too complicated.
And here's what starts happening.
Instead of spending your day serving your stuff...
your home starts serving you.
You walk into your kitchen after supper, look around, and instead of feeling that pit in your stomach, you think,
"Okay... I've got this."
Life is still going to happen.
Kids are still going to dump backpacks.
Shabbos is still going to happen.
Your home just comes back together so much faster because there's simply less to manage.
That is my goal.
I'm not trying to give you a perfect home.
I'm trying to help you create an easy-to-manage home.
Because once your home becomes easy to manage...
everything else gets easier too.
One day you're going to look around your house and think,
"What on earth took me so long?"
Real women, real homes
I could tell you this works all day long, but honestly, the women say it better than I ever could.
I wish I had done this years ago.
Do you know the only thing I regret about Home Reset Bootcamp? Waiting so long. I had been following Ellie for four years, and I kept thinking I would get around to it one day. What on earth took me so long? I can't change the past, but moving forward I'm telling every woman I meet the same thing: just do it. Just get rid of it.
I am finally under control in my home.
Sure, my house still gets crazy sometimes because that is normal, and Ellie told us that would happen, but I am totally comfortable with my kids wrecking the house now because I know it is easy for us to put it back together. They help me, and I wish I would have done this sooner.
Twenty minutes later the house was back together.
The other day we had a birthday party and my house looked CRAZY. Normally I would have panicked, but I looked around and thought, "Okay, Ellie was right. I've got this." Yes, my kids helped me, but that is the whole point. They actually can help now.
Ladies... I have officially arrived.
It really takes me less than twenty minutes to get my house back together. My house still gets messy because that is life, but now I know exactly what to do.
This course completely changed the way I parent.
I finally have the confidence to ask my kids to help because I know I am giving them something they can actually do. Everything has an easy home, so they are able to clean up independently. I can't even explain how empowering that feels.
Your before-and-after could be next.
Save my spotThe bigger story
For the past few months I've been writing a kitchen reset series for Ami Living, following one woman as she simplified her kitchen using the exact Frum Minimalism method I teach inside Home Reset Bootcamp.
But honestly...
this isn't just her story.
We've all done it.
We've bought the bins because surely this set of bins is going to change everything.
We've bought the baskets.
We've labeled things.
Some of us have even hired professional organizers.
Everything looks beautiful...
for a little while.
Then we're right back where we started.
It's exhausting.
Baruch Hashem, I managed to break that cycle in my own home.
Then I started teaching other women how to do it.
Now I've watched hundreds of students break that same cycle.
I've watched private clients break that same cycle.
And now...
it's your turn.
Your turn to stop feeling like your stuff is running your house.
Your turn to become the boss of your home instead of your home being the boss of you.
Your turn to stop managing things that don't even deserve to be taking up your time, your energy, your cabinets, and your brain.
That's exactly what we're going to do together inside Home Reset Bootcamp.
Inside the bootcamp
I am going to make you a promise.
I am not going to throw you into your house and wish you good luck.
You are never going to stand in the middle of a room thinking, "Okay... now what?"
I have spent years refining this method, teaching it, tweaking it, and watching what works and what does not, until I created a step-by-step system that works in real homes with real families and real life happening.
Every single week, I am going to show you exactly what to do, how to think, what questions to ask yourself, what mistakes to avoid, and how to make decisions without standing there for twenty minutes holding one random serving bowl wondering if you should keep it.
By the end of these five weeks, I do not want you looking around your home thinking, "Wow, my house is perfect."
I honestly do not care if it is perfect.
I want you looking around thinking, "I've got this."
You are going to know exactly where things belong. You are going to have room to put groceries away. Your kids are going to be able to help because putting something away will actually be simple. And when you have one of those completely insane Wednesdays that we all have, you are going to look around, take a deep breath, and think, "Okay. Give me twenty minutes."
Because your home is finally easy to maintain.
That is what we are building together.
I decided to do something I honestly have not done in years.
This summer, you are not just getting Home Reset Bootcamp.
We are doing it together.
Bonus 01
Private Summer WhatsApp
A private Summer Home Reset WhatsApp chat just for this group, besides for the regular group. Our own group.
Bonus 02
Cheering each other on
Post before-and-afters, celebrate wins, ask questions, cheer each other on, laugh together, and keep the momentum going all summer long.
Bonus 03
Live Q&A with Ellie
I know questions come up once you actually start doing the work, and I want us to have time together to work through them.
Bonus 04
Amazing bonus classes
I am also including several bonus classes including my 2 part workshop on Raising Minimalist Kids, Time Management Class, Phone Class and Cleaning Class.
Because if there is one thing I learned during OUT, it is that getting rid of stuff is a whole lot more fun when you are doing it with other women who completely understand why you are texting a picture of four garbage bags like you just won the lottery.
Behind The Scenes
A few little windows into what actually happens inside the bootcamp.
Summer Home Reset Camp
Everything, together, all summer.
One full year of access
Your Complete Home Management Library
Exclusive for my OUT girls
My goal is not just to help you declutter a few cabinets.
My goal is to help you create an easy-to-manage home and a calmer, easier-to-manage life.
So for this special Summer OUT Girl round, I’m including my favorite Frum Minimalism classes that all work together.
This is not the regular Bootcamp offer.
This is exclusively for the OUT girls who are ready to take this seriously.
What it's actually worth
YES! 2 payments of $225 is available by request. Please email me ellie@frumminimalism.com to set this up.
Small live cohort · Once per summer · Doors close XXX
"Loved by every OUT Girl who's walked through it."
Show up, do the work, and by the end of these 5 weeks your home will finally feel like yours — not your stuff's. That's my promise.
And before you say, "Oof... that's a lot," can I ask you a question?
How much time have you already spent reorganizing the same cabinets?
How many bins have you bought?
How many baskets?
How many organizers?
How many Sunday afternoons and Erev Shabbosim have disappeared because you were determined that this was finally going to be the day your house stayed organized?
How much money have you spent buying duplicates because you could not find what you already owned?
How many times have you looked around your house and thought, "I cannot keep living like this"?
This is not another organizing project.
This is learning a completely different way to run your home.
You are not buying twenty-two videos.
You are learning a skill that you are going to use every single day for the rest of your life.
And can I tell you something funny?
Women literally start making money back almost immediately.
No, I am not promising that you are going to find money hidden around your house.
But Baruch Hashem, it happens all the time.
$300 cash on day one.
Oh my gosh, ladies. My very first day decluttering I found $300 cash. I could not believe it.
A $170 gift card, forgotten.
I found a $170 gift card sitting in an old perfume box. I had completely forgotten it existed.
It paid for itself.
Home Reset Bootcamp literally paid for itself. Once I significantly decluttered, I realized I did not need my cleaning lady four times a week anymore. Now she comes once a week, and I am saving hundreds of dollars every single month.
So yes, Home Reset Bootcamp is $397.
But what you are really learning is how to stop spending your life, your money, your time, and your brain managing things that do not even need to be in your home anymore.
One full year of access
This is not for everyone.
If you enjoyed OUT, got rid of a few things, and you are happy continuing slowly on your own, I am genuinely so happy for you.
Seriously. That is wonderful.
But if you are sitting there thinking, "I am so tired of cleaning the same clutter over and over again. I do not want to spend another year reorganizing instead of actually solving the problem. I want my kids to be able to help. I want to look around my home and finally feel like I've got this," then I really hope you will join me.
Because Baruch Hashem, I have watched hundreds of women make this exact transformation.
Not because they bought prettier containers.
Because they finally stopped trying to manage everything.
They got rid of the extra.
And everything became easier.
I would love for this to be your summer too.
Come join us.
Let's make this the summer you stop fighting with your home and finally become the boss of it.
The summer you stop fighting with your home and finally become the boss of it.
Save my spot — $397One full year of access · Bonuses included